As a conservative and unabashed proponent of democratic capitalism (as the great Michael Novak defined it), you might think I have no problem with the commercialization of Christmas. But you would be wrong. I hate it. It distracts our focus from the child in the manger and the mission for which he became both wholly God and wholly human.
Some years ago Helen and I chose to opt out. We decorate lightly and give gifts to a few close family members. But we stopped giving each other gifts. Instead, we donate the money we used to spend on gifts to Catholic Charities LA and the Los Angeles Mission, both of which do great work for the poor and homeless in our community. It makes the season far less stressful and reminds us annually of what the season is supposed to be about.
You too may find that not buying into the Hallmarkization of Christmas makes it more meaningful.